Wants and Needs - How Knowing the Difference Between Them Can Save You Money and Time

What is the difference between what you wantexample, instead of going out to the store and
and what you need? What you need is moneybuying expensive Xmas and birthday presents,
for food, shelter and clothing. It does not meanwhy not start making your own? I have a friend
food in a restaurant, it does not mean frozenwho has a large family and at Xmas time, they
food, or ready-made meals or gourmet foods.pull one name out a hat and you only make or
Shelter is anything that will get you out of thebuy a present for one person. That saves a lot
cold or the heat - regardless of how cramped theof money too.
quarters are, a safe place to live, just so you areTo sum up wants and needs:
not out on the street.You NEED: food, shelter and clothing - everything
And clothing - if you have clothing in your closet,above that is a WANT. E.g. a big house, designer
no matter how many years old and it still fits you,clothes, fancy foods, a new car, electronic goods...
that's your basic clothing. You don't need to goHow can you have more of the things that you
out and shop for more clothing, and you certainlywant?
don't have to have designer clothing.By becoming a smart shopper.
What I'm going to show is a blueprint. We'll startThe economy is going down, the competition is
out with the extreme circumstance. The extremefierce. As conditions worsen and as competition
kinds of budgeting. If you have more money atincreases, the smart businessperson will adjust
your disposal and you are not incurring credit cardtheir prices accordingly, and the smart negotiator,
debts, then you can use some of that money tothe smart consumer will look around and shop for
relax some of the standard of living that abetter prices, and try to get a better deal before
recession or a depression forces us into.buying.
You may want a very big house, but do youFor example, in my home town, computer repairs
really need it in this economy? Can you stay inare quite expensive. However, I noticed a new
the house you are in, or if your mortgage is toocomputer company advertising their services for
onerous for you to handle, perhaps you couldhalf price and nights and weekends are being
consider downgrading and moving to a smalleroffered at the same price as normal business
house?hours.
I had to grapple with this issue myself a couple ofI know a lady who has a computer servicing
years ago when I wanted a bigger house and Ibusiness and all of a sudden she has no clients.
was all set to buy one - it was a lovely house andThey don't need computer repairs and servicing
was everything I ever wanted and I didn't buy itany more - they're economizing. So she will have
because I saw signs that the economy wasto reduce her rates and advertise herself
turning. I had to wrestle with myself with mydifferently in order to create customers.
wants and needs. I am still living in the samePeople are being held hostage to a lot of different
house, it's a bit cramped, but it's mine - andkinds of companies and they think that they don't
someday if the economy turns around and thehave options. But they certainly do. And with the
money is there and that property comes back ondownturn, businesses have to be much more
the market, maybe then I'll move - or maybe I'llcreative in their marketing and they have to be
have just become accustomed to less space.willing to negotiate on price.
Do you want or need a luxury car? Could youWe will be seeing more and more businesses
make do with something that gets you from Aoffering special deals and using new marketing
to B?techniques to attract our business. So this is a
Do you want or need more clothing or an extragreat time to improve your negotiating skills.
piece of jewellery? What is it that you do need?How can you negotiate a better price?
You may say that you need things for business,Buy in bulk and buy when it's on offer. Even if it's
for example, better clothing. But do you reallynot on offer and you are buying a large quantity -
need more clothing or could you buy clothinge.g. envelopes, tins of beans, whatever it is -
more cheaply?always ask for a discount. I had to walk my own
Ladies, how many pairs of shoes do you actuallytalk this week in a local discount stationery store.
need?I was buying 50 envelopes and a few other things
While some books are wonderful to own, mustand I asked the assistant for a discount. He flatly
you own all the books you read, or can you getsaid that they did not offer discounts unless you
some at the library?spent at least $1000. So I asked him to call the
How often do you go out to eat? What kinds ofmanager who did agree to a discount. It is always
restaurants do you go to? Can you cut back onworth trying and usually will save you some
the number of times you entertain or go out tomoney!
dinner? Can you cut back on the types ofAsk for an extra e.g. I bought an alarm clock - it
entertainment you go to?was reduced from $35 to $29 and she wouldn't
Everyone nowadays seems to love everythingreduce it further, but she threw in two batteries
electronic. Do you really need all those electronicwhich would have cost $10.00
toys? How fancy does your computer have toShop on days and at hours when trade is slow
be? How much of a sound system do you needIn vegetable and flower markets, shop late in the
to enjoy your music? Can you do these thingsday when vendors want to get rid of perishables.
more cheaply or relinquish them altogether whenIf you cannot come to an agreement, try holding
necessary?out the money in cash that you are prepared to
It's better to know what your options are topay - the sight of cash is very powerful.
conserve your assets rather than wait aroundBe prepared to walk away - don't be attached to
and some day maybe have to give them upthe deal.
altogether.When I had my property investment company in
Right now, while you still have a choice, if thethe UK, I had to negotiate on every property
economy is affecting you adversely and you arethat I bought and sold. I had to negotiate with
being forced to reorganize your priorities, youbanks and finance companies to get the best
would be best served by taking a look at whatmortgages, I had to negotiate with lawyers to
you have, what you are willing to give up andget the best representation for the contracts I
what you are willing to economize on.entered into. If you are in business, you can
So if you are ever in a position where you haveexpect your customers to negotiate with you,
to give up something or everything, it will be lessand in this downturn, if you are not willing to
painful. Any by economizing now, when you arenegotiate you might lose the sale.
not being forced to do it, you will end up with aFor example, there was a woman in the US who
plus in your savings account.wanted to buy a new Honda. She had been told
Many people just want to get away from it allthat if pushed to the wall, a dealer is allowed to
and they go on holidays that they can ill-afford.give up to 20% off on the sticker price. They
When they come back nothing has changed indon't like to do it, but they will do it - especially
their lives, except now when they come backwhen they have no sales. She called this company
from holiday they have less money than whenand tried to negotiate with them - they said: "it's
they started. If you are going on holiday, makenot our philosophy to discount our cars. We will
sure you can afford it and there is still going to benot negotiate.
money for you when you come back.So she went elsewhere. She ended up buying a
Everyone needs a break in their routine. It doesn'tcar, getting her 20% discount from another
mean you have to spend money to take thatdealer that didn't have a philosophy of no
break. Take advantage of the free things thatnegotiation. If you don't get emotionally attached
are available to you - walking, cycling, fishing, freeto what you want to buy - and a car is one of
concerts, art galleries, museums.the examples of where people do get attached,
For entertainment, instead of going out andyou will be able to get a good deal. What often
spending money on entertainment - how abouthappens, is that people often get emotionally
having people over to your home, or you goingattached to big ticket items e.g. a car, a house, a
over to their home and playing cards or boardboat. Always remember, if one company doesn't
games? There are many ways to relax and havewant to deal, there's always another company
fun with other people that don't cost you a cent.that will. Just keep looking.
In an economic recession, people get moreSo there is a middle road between wants and
depressed more easily so they need a little liftneeds in the economy. Maybe you can have
from time to time. However, there is no reasonmore of what you want if you become a better
to think total depression at the thought of havingshopper. But at the current prices, it is essential
no money, no entertainment and nothing to breakthat you separate your wants and your needs.
up the doom and gloom when there are plenty ofSo if you are a smart shopper and can negotiate
free activities to do. It requires friends and familymuch better prices, you might be able to afford
to pull together to do things that are enjoyable toone or two of your wants. But if you aren't an
lift one another's spirits.informed shopper, then I would suggest that you
Learning how to economize can be enjoyable. Forstick to your needs.