Are All Men Fashion Train Wrecks, Or Is It Just Me?

When I shop for clothes, I keep it simple. I walkminutes. The key to my fashion plan is the
into the men's store and say, "I want to look atcoordinating shirt. I learned from a saleslady at a
some shirts."high-end department store that "coordinating" and
The salesperson points to the shirts and I say "I'll"matching" are two entirely different things; I don't
take this one and that one".think guys are supposed to match. But, can you
I'm out of there in less than 5 minutes. There aretrust fashion advice from a saleslady trying
way too few hours in the day to be fussing overbalancing her integrity against a commission
clothescheck?
It's a good thing that I've streamlined my clothesMarried guys have it easy; they place the
shopping to a quick and efficient science. Likeresponsibility for clothing choices on their wives. I
most men, I have no natural fashion sense. Theactually know a woman who hangs her husband's
only real advice I ever got was "David, listen toclothes in outfits; shirt, pants, socks, and
your mother, nothing packs in a suit-case likeunderwear all on one hanger--he just grabs a
polyester."hanger and runs. Nice for him, but I have been
Keep in mind; this advice comes from the sameunable to get his wife to do the same for me.
woman who used to make me wear a sweaterWe did discuss the possibilities, but decided it just
over my Halloween costume.wouldn't be right.
The problem of men dressing in style is universal.Of course, having a wife doesn't necessarily solve
There is even a television show where men ofproblems; you especially see this at church, men
questionable orientation teach a heterosexual manwearing "matching" clothes where the coloring is
how-to-dress. I'm not prepared for comment onperfect. You can tell their wives even matched
this other than to say; "I won't go there" (snap,the clothes based on skin tone. Thank goodness
snap).these men wear wedding bands or else we'd be
You only have to stand in line at the picture showforced to draw conclusions about them other
to see how bad us guys are at dressing ourselvesthan the truth.
and how much help we really need. All thoseI guess when it's all said and done; it's better I
beautiful young ladies lined up for the movie beingstick to my tried-and-true uniform. After turning
escorted by young men wearing baggy shorts,40 I lost interest in trying to look stylish, just
t-shirts, and thread bare baseball caps. I reallybeing clean and neat are lofty goals for me.
don't know why these girls put up with it, unlessBesides that, plain shirts and khakis are easy to
they saw that same television show and they'refind, there's seldom a question about my
afraid a well-dressed man might be a risky choice.interests, and the clothing budget is perfect for a
In a weak attempt to solve my own clothingman who doesn't work regularly.
dilemma, I've done what most guys over 40 do. IThe only thing I need now is a sweater;
wear plain khakis and a coordinating shirt--no mussHalloween will be here before we know it.
no fuss, I'm dressed and ready to go in about 15Ya'll come!