| In theory, pregnant women are supposed to | | | | more stripes appearing along the rise of your |
| radiate some sort of special glow and our bodies | | | | bump. Be sure to strap on the pillow and check |
| are supposed to, as they say, "blossom". In | | | | out the side view in the mirror before you even |
| reality, that glow is often created by the sweat | | | | think of purchasing that shirt! Chances are, it's |
| from our hot flashes, and the word we might use | | | | going to look bizarre. |
| to describe our bodies -- especially after 30 | | | | The one exception to the stripe rule is a top with |
| weeks or so -- would be "ballooning." | | | | a chevron stripe whose horizontal lines meet at a |
| Regardless of how we thought we'd feel about | | | | point over the center of the belly. That type of |
| our baby bumps, the challenges of dressing a | | | | stripe is indeed flattering from any angle; |
| pregnant body sometimes seem more difficult to | | | | unfortunately, most striped maternity tops don't |
| bear than the child itself. But luckily, in the past | | | | fall into this category. |
| decade or two, maternity designers have really, | | | | |
| er, delivered. Thanks to changes in the way the | | | | 4. Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize! |
| pregnant body is viewed, even the most pregnant | | | | No matter the difficulty of finding suitable |
| mamas can look fabulous with a few little tricks. | | | | maternity wear, there is one thing we don't have |
| | | | to compromise on -- accessories! Yes, at some |
| 1. If you've got it, flaunt it! | | | | point, we may have to buy new, roomier shoes |
| When our mothers were pregnant with us, | | | | with lower heels, but there are still earrings, |
| maternity clothes were little more than an | | | | necklaces, belts and bags -- the great equalizer |
| offshoot of the tentmaking trade. Nobody could | | | | for women of all shapes and sizes. |
| tell what was going on underneath the big top until | | | | When your feet plump up like sausages, take |
| the main event was imminent! While body-hugging | | | | that opportunity to buy attractive footwear from |
| fabrics may seem frightening at this most | | | | a shoe store such as Naturalizer or Aerosoles that |
| weight-sensitive of times, fitted styles are actually | | | | specializes in comfort. For optimal comfort, |
| the pregnant woman's best friend -- no matter | | | | doctors recommend something with a low heel |
| what her size. | | | | rather than a perfectly flat shoe. Our |
| It sounds counterintuitive, but clothes that cling | | | | grandmothers may have worn clunky orthopedic |
| to your curves create a more slender silhouette | | | | shoes, but we don't have to -- many of today's |
| and draws attention to the baby belly. | | | | comfiest shoes are nearly indistinguishable from |
| (Conversely, baggy clothing creates the illusion of | | | | fashion footwear. |
| overall hugeness.) Especially when you are heavily | | | | No matter what your personal style, jewelry and |
| pregnant, highlighting rather than hiding the baby | | | | bags are the perfect way to complete your look. |
| bump draws attention to your pregnancy rather | | | | In the second trimester, when you are sporting |
| than your size. If a shirt that is fitted throughout | | | | a smaller baby bump, nothing is a cuter |
| is too daring for your taste, consider empire-waist | | | | counterpoint to a fitted tee than a funky, |
| tops that are fitted through the shoulders and | | | | low-slung belt or two under the tummy. And if |
| bust -- and pass by the baggy oxfords, shapeless | | | | your belly is beyond huge at, say, 41 weeks, a |
| tees and blousy dress tops. | | | | monochromatic outfit accessorized with a striking, |
| | | | chunky necklace draws the eye up and away |
| 2. Do it with flare | | | | from the possibility that you could deliver right |
| Tapered pants are unflattering on all but the | | | | here, in this very spot (because you know this is |
| skinniest of figures, and yet for some reason, | | | | running through the grocery checker's mind!). |
| maternity stores continue to sell them. The result | | | | And, last but not least, by all means indulge in |
| is the "Tomato Effect," in which the poor fashion | | | | cute little bags while you can. Because for quite |
| victim looks like a big round tomato on little stick | | | | some time after your little bun comes out of the |
| legs. | | | | oven, you'll be toting around a diaper bag by day |
| Don't buy tapered trousers just because they're | | | | and dreaming at night of tiny satin handbags. |
| on the rack! To balance your new top-heavy look, | | | | |
| shop for a pant with flared legs. A boot cut looks | | | | 5. Keep it natural |
| great with almost any shirt and counteracts the | | | | Last but not least, one of the best ways to feel |
| extra weight you're carrying in the belly and butt. | | | | good about how you look is to wear what you |
| A pant that makes you look like a million bucks is | | | | love. It's a bit harder when you're pregnant and |
| worth the extra shopping time. | | | | the stores are all selling the same style of |
| | | | maternity wear (which may just be too frilly, too |
| 3. Change your stripes | | | | strappy, too frumpy or too bohemian for your |
| One of the worst things a pregnant woman can | | | | tastes), but it's still doable. Why change your |
| wear is stripes -- of any kind. Horizontal stripes | | | | entire look just because you're having a baby? |
| are out for the obvious reason that they create a | | | | Instead of limiting yourself to one or two stores, |
| widening effect on an already bulky part of the | | | | check out the maternity sections in places you |
| body. This may work in the second trimester | | | | might not ordinarily shop. Look online for fashions |
| when your bump is tiny and cute, but by the time | | | | that aren't available in your area. There's |
| you are ready to deliver, it can be a bit | | | | something out there for every expectant mother |
| frightening to behold even if you are the tall and | | | | -- rocker chick, fashionista, preppie or princess. |
| willowy type. | | | | Finding clothing you're confident in is key to looking |
| But lest you leap to the seemingly logical | | | | and feeling like a sexy mama! |
| conclusion that if horizontal stripes enlarge, then | | | | |
| vertical stripes are slimming, consider this: That | | | | Copyright 2006, Heather PhillipsHeather Phillips is a |
| vertical-stripe top may be cute on the rack, but | | | | longtime journalist, fashion devotee and founder |
| where will those stripes lie when they are draped | | | | of the maternity and baby website She lives in |
| over a 45-inch belly? From the side, you are going | | | | the Pacific Northwest with her husband, children |
| to have layer upon layer of striping, with yet | | | | and longhair cat. |