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Article #192: Do you Want to Become a Sexually Skilled Husband?

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Sex is a lifelong marathon, not a 'putting on the moves', and when she is
one-night sprint. You may not be putting ready for things to progress to the next
a lot of thought into the distant future level.
while you're still trying to get Although many women could also stand to
something hot and heavy going this learn more about their own sexual
Saturday evening, but time marches on response process, this article is
whether you're paying attention to it or directed towards men, basically to help
not. Luckily, you're likely to have many them be better lovers. A little
decades of good sex ahead of you as you information can go a long way if you use
enter, and even pass, your middle years. it right.
And you can improve your chances for a As you might have guessed, there are both
lifetime of hot nights if you start physical and mental aspects to female
taking care of yourself today. sexual response - both influence her
For complex reasons, everyone has their overall level of arousal. They key
own views about what is sexy or exciting, physical elements of a woman's physical
and what makes them feel powerful or sexual response are the most obvious
irresistible or vulnerable whatever frame signs of sexual excitement, making them
of mind they'd like to achieve for their the most important for you to watch for.
highest enjoyment. Mental aspects are extremely important,
During your 20s, one of the primary goals so we'll touch on the most vital.
facing you is to become comfortable with Physical signs of female sexual
your own sexuality, learning whom you excitement include flushed skin due to
want to be with, how often you want to increased bloodflow, increased breathing
make love, and what, exactly, you want to rate, and blood pressure. You may also
do in bed. And during your late 20s, you see her overall level of body tension
face the task of learning how to be increase. Every woman is different, so
comfortable with your lover's needs as what's important is to notice that
well. This isn't easy. It involves something has changed.
sometimes awkward conversations, bedroom The physical elements you can't easily
accommodations and compromises, and some see include vasodilatation, which is
amount of anxiety and frustration, which increased blood flow to sexual organs,
in themselves can contribute to and biochemical and emotional changes
occasional sex problems. that lead her towards a stronger desire
If you're like most guys, by the time you for sex.
reach your 30s, you'll have entered into Let's take a more detailed look at the
the world of career, marriage and stages of female sexual response.
parenthood. These are the things most men Sexual response is significantly
want in life, and they can be quite different for men and women. Women don't
fulfilling. But along with monogamy and need a recovery period like men typically
new responsibilities, you may face new do. After orgasm, women can just keep on
problems in the sack, particularly sexual going provided that stimulation is
boredom and loss of libido. provided almost immediately. This is what
Most men in their 40s will begin to allows women to have multiple orgasms -
notice differences in the quality of back-to-back stimulation resulting in
their erections. It may become orgasm. Her partner must apply
increasingly difficult for some, almost stimulation immediately after orgasm in
impossible-to raise one from sex order to keep her going.
fantasies alone, and direct touching of Another difference between men and
the genitals becomes increasingly women's sexual response is that women can
essential (but who's complaining, be distracted right up to the last
right?). Also, erections may not achieve moment. Men have several seconds of 'pre
the same rigidity as before, and if orgasm' where they cannot stop it from
fondling stops, they may soften or happening, whereas women can be
subside. There may also be some loss of distracted right up until the last
sensation: your skin will begin to moment, pushing them slightly back in the
thicken, growing less sensitive, and cycle to approach orgasm again.
nerve transmission will slow. Many things can affect a woman's sexual
The man loses interest in lovemaking or response. Stress and fatigue play a major
any intimate activity with a partner. He role, and the struggle to balance family,
may simply feel he has no desire and does profession, and relationship can wear her
not feel aroused, even when a partner down, causing a loss of sexual
attempts to turn him on. Alternatively, appetite.Lack of sexual desire is the
he may feel generally tired and most common female sexual complaint, and
uninterested in life, including sex. about 1 in 3 women experience lack of
It's pretty common for a man's penis to drive in their lives.
occasionally 'fall out' during sex, but Other issues can result in interruptions
this can happen more often when the man's to normal sexual response. Daily stress
penis is small, not erect enough, or when and relationship strain can have lasting
the sex is particularly intense. It's not physical effects on sexual response, such
a big problem, and there's probably as reduced blood flow to the vagina
nothing wrong with either partner. during sex. This can make sex
If it happens often enough, however, it uncomfortable, and result in even further
can become a frustrating momentum killer. loss of sex drive.
It not only breaks the rhythm of the Another common problem is when the man
moment, but also can actually result in simply 'moves too fast'. Not taking
discomfort. The main reason this happens enough time for vasodilatation,
comes from the lack of sensitivity and lubrication, and nerve preparation can
feeling condoms cause for men. Some men easily lead to discomfort for a woman.
try to put it back themselves with 'no Different people, times, and situations -
hands' and less skill than they ought to, all affect the quality and path of
occasionally 'spearing' their partners' arousal. There is no formula for the
more sensitive parts. Don't laugh, it 'right path' to sexual arousal, just what
actually happens! Women who experience works for the situation. Look to the
this agree that "it kind-of puts a damper woman for what she needs next, and you'll
on things." be better able to see what she needs
For a man in a relationship, when, and for how long. With a little
understanding female sexual response is more knowledge of female sexual response
key to knowing how to better please his and a little practice, you should be well
partner, strengthening both the bond and on your way to a much more satisfying sex
relationship. For the single man, it life.
helps to know 'how you're doing' when






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